The obituary for Kathleen Dehmlow, published by The Redwood Falls Gazette, quickly gained attention for its unexpected content. What began as a typical tribute soon revealed deep family grievances, ending with a shocking final statement. The obituary was later removed after widespread backlash, but not before going viral. A family member, Dwight, confirmed its accuracy but criticized the author for making private matters public, arguing it caused unnecessary pain. Despite the controversy, the newspaper defended its decision, citing no legal prohibition. The incident underscores how obituaries, meant as respectful tributes, can sometimes become outlets for unresolved family conflicts with lasting repercussions